Well earlier of this month, i read a interesting book which i would like to share. The book title named
'The five love languages'. Well it's a book to understand the need of different languages in a relationship. Well after reading it, I will tell Brian about it(well, he doesn't like to read). Even though it doesn't affect us now.. But maybe in future? Well it's good to have some knowledge.. :)
Pardon me if i describe it wrongly..
According to the book, it says that everyone has a tank in them.. Since young we have it. So if you have a caring and lovely family, probably your tank is filled to the brim.. And if you come from a broken family, your tank might be empty.. In every relationship, it's the same too.. So with this love languages, your tank will never be empty..
The 5 love languages are:
1.
Words of affirmation - Telling your partner how much you love them and assured them verbally. Saying that they look pretty/handsome to give them confident.
2.
Receiving Gifts - Not neccesary giving them on occcasions but also on random days.. (awww.. isn't it sweet?!)
3.
Quality Time - Having heart to heart session. Spending time JUST with your partner. (Just doing thing with one another and the only focus is your partner.. )
4.
Act of services - Doing things for your partner. Things like packing their messy room/table. Helping your partner to do some chores when they're busy.
5.
Physical touch - Not only the ahem kind.. (you know what i mean). Simply hug and kisses does count too.. You know, hugging them makes them feel good..
Well I might have interpreted it wrongly. The best way is to buy the book and read it.. Haha!
So after reading it, ain't you curious of your own love language? :) Here's a link that you can try doing it.. (I FIND IT SO TRUE!!)
http://www.afo.net/hftw-lovetest.aspSad to say, Mr Wang going to have a hard time.. According to the book, the higher the number you scored for the quiz, that's your love language. And the following second highest cannot be neglected as well. It will be the second priority you see.. So see my score below:
1. Word of affirmation - 8
2. Recieving Gifts - 3
3. Quanlity Time - 7
4. Act of services - 7
5. Physical Touch - 7
Wooohooo! I've got 3 that scored the second highest.. Basically Mr Wang does not need to give me ALOT of gifts.. but ALOT of other 4 love languages.. :P
